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Relationship Work 

Relationships can be tough - and very painful!

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We might have the fantasy of everlasting love, the amazing connection with our soul mate, but often the reality looks so different...

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Do you and your partner feel like two ships passing in the night?​

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Do you argue about the same old stuff, and feel like you're living with a roommate instead of a lover? Do you feel disconnected? Has one (or both) of you started to feel that this might not be the right relationship for you any longer?

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Maybe the kids have become more important than your relationship, and you can't even remember when you had fun and a good laugh together?

Or maybe, your relationship has become entirely transactional, you are functioning as parents, but the spark is definitely missing...

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Maybe one of you has had an affair or is thinking about having one, or your sexual life has become non-existent and you have started to wonder if the grass is greener somewhere else...

 

There are so many reasons a relationship can feel unsatisfying.

 

On average, couples seek help seven years after their issues started! The longer you wait, the bigger the mess!

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But it is never too late to get back to a fulfilling, functional and love-filled relationship. 

 

The main thing is to get started.

 

Within our first session, I can help you turn your agony into hope, and create a solid plan of action going forward.

 

It is important to seek out a counsellor or coach that specialises in couples counselling:

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You would not ask your GP to perform open heart surgery on you, and you don't want to let a general counsellor work with your marriage or relationship. 

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I am here to help you and your relationship.

 

I am a relationship coach, counsellor and therapist, with over twenty-five years of experience specialising in the field of relationships and communication. I have trained and successfully counselled hundreds of couples and I am also a clinical supervisor for other counsellors, coaches and therapists. 

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With my guidance, you can reignite the passion in your relationship and create a strong, fulfilling connection with your partner. Don't wait any longer to start your journey towards a happier, healthier, emotionally and physically connected relationship. 

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I’ve got your back, let's do this! 

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Stefanie Bullock, MNZAC

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My Story

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I am passionate about my work with couples! Here is why:

My first marriage broke down after an experience of some very poor couples counselling.

I was devastated. I felt I had done everything in my power, and yet, I was standing in the front of a  pile of rubble.

Worse yet, I had three small children by my side.

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After a painful period of agony, I went through a divorce...

As devastating as these years might have been, it motivated me to do something with my experience.

I wanted to ensure that other couples would find better support, better counselling, in fact I was aiming for a high quality support, that would make a lasting and significant difference for the couples I was going to be working with!

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This motivated me to train again! I traied again - in a variety of couples therapy modalities.

 

The strategies I am teaching, I use at home in my own life as well.
                                    
Because - THEY WORK! 

Contact

Contact me today to start your relationship journey.

Connect with me!

+64 22 070 01 04

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